The Dillons
May Dillon
May
Early Life
May was born in 1921; her parents were John Marshall & Mary
(Sissy) Elizabeth Marshall (nee McKeag). She had one brother,
John (known as Jacky) and the family lived in Whitehall Street
Footscray. In 1925 Sissy became sick and eventually died of what
we now call Leukemia when May was three.
Susan Marshall, John’s sister, moved into assist. It should be
remembered that it was considered unthinkable at that time that a
male should be bringing up a girl.
This is in he depression so work was hard to get. John had a job at
Sunshine Harvestor, now Massey Ferguson. In the next two years
John lost his job & Susan took May to Dubbo where Susan had a
job as a cook for a sheep station during the shearing. it is not known
which sheep station as there were many in the Dubbo area. When this job
finished Susan and May moved to Trangie where they lived above the CBC
Bank. Susan did the cleaning of the bank.
Trangie had an eventful history in that period experiencing a tornado (1926)
some time before they arrived, then in 1928 fire razed one side of the main
street. Most buildings, except the bank, were weatherboard
and succomed easily to the raging fire which had started at
the rear of the hotel on the opposite corner. May still vividly
remembers watching the fires from her upstairs window. In the three blocked
photos opposite the shop opposite the bank, pre-fires is discernable; the
second is a photo of May in front of the shop & the third is the shop as rebuilt
after the fires.
A short time later another fire started in a toolshed at the other end of town and did
considerable damage. It is not known why Susan & May left Trangie but it would not have been
long after the second fire. They returned to Footscray.
Susan & John (snr) had a row and Susan left. Naturally May could not stay with her father and
she went to live with the Fitzgeralds in Newport. Mr Fitzgerald worked at the Shell refinery & it
is not known how he & John Marshall were connected perhaps John had worked at Shell. This
did not last long before May was again relocated. Somewhere in this period John’s house was
reclaimed by the bank & John went to work in the mines at Bruthen.
John returned from the mines because Jacky was causing quite a fuss at school (St Kevins)
and fatherly intervention was required. It is not known who had been looking after him.
Coincidences
Jacky
Jacky Marshall was born in Cobar in general area
of Dubbo & Trangie
Fitzgeralds
There are quite a few Fitzgeralds around Trangie.
It was the Fitzgeralds of Newport that May went
to live with c1930.
Were there relatives in the area, especially Dubbo
or Trangie, where Susan took May to look for
work? Why did Susan take May to Dubbo & then
Trangie?
Aunty (Esther Ann Anderson 1874-1962)
It is uncertain why but May was moved from the Fitzgeralds’
care and taken in by aunty, John’s cousin. At the time Aunty
was already looking after her mother and brother and would
have been in her late 50s. Taking on a young child as well
would have been a big ask.
However, she did take May in and the relationship lasted until Aunty’s death in
1962. When May married Charley in 1941 she continued to live at Argo Street
with Aunty until Charley returned from New Guinea then Charley, May & Terry
lived with Aunty until they bought & moved into their house in Richmond in November of 1946. At Richmond
Charley added a room for Aunty who lived with them for a short time. After that she was a regular visitor at
both Richmond & Preston until her death in 1962. Aunty is buried at the Kew Cemetery with her mother
(Jane), sister (Mary) & brother (Bill - William). See above left for burial details.
May - School & Her Debut
After moving in with Aunty may attended St Josephs primary school in South
Yarra. She had attended St Monicas in Footscray, St Carthages in Trangie and
Sacred Heart in Newport. She left St Josephs with her merit at age 14 (1933)
and won a scholarship for another two years at St Brigids in North Fitzroy and
Santa Maria doing Commercial Studies, shorthand, typing & bookkeeping.
May started going to dances with a group of friends, one of whom was Mary Dee. Mary was
friendly with Vin McCue. One day Mary & May were at Vin’s house when Vin’s friend Charley
was there. The two had known each other as both groups of friends often attended the same
dances. May was about to make her debut and asked Charley to partner her. After her debut the
two continued to see each other both as part of their groups and increasingly just with each
other.
Work
May got her first job with Love & Lewis, a clothing store in Chapel Street Prahan. This lasted
about nine months before she went to Hicks Atkinson as a mail order officer for three years
and then at AML (Australian Mutual Life) in Queen St Melbourne she worked as a secretary.
May took 12 months off to have her first child, Terry, and returned to the workforce, now aged
about 21. Her former boss, Mr Robinson, State Manager of AML, got her a position (May
thinks it was National Mutual). She stayed with this job for about 12 months before taking up
a position across the road in Argo Street at Oswool Shawls as secretary to the owner and
remained with the company until Charley returned from New Guinea..
Love & Lewis
Chapel St Prahan
May on holiday at Healesville
during leave from work
Friends of May at St Brigids
during commercial studies